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Are you whining or weeping? Three questions to ask yourself

Are you whining or weeping? Three questions to ask yourself

The other day, my three-year-old son, Solomon, taught me how to cry on cue. He said, “Mom, if you want to cry, you have to do this.” He scrunched up his nose, squinted his eyes and lowered his eyebrows, then began making fake crying noises. Five seconds later, his...

Why you should schedule phone calls with your friends

Why you should schedule phone calls with your friends

I opened my calendar and noticed something interesting. In a week and a half, I had four “meetings” scheduled with different friends. One was a phone call resulting from a last-minute “Can you chat tomorrow?” text that I received from a friend in Dallas. Another was a...

When a prodigal returns [a true story]

When a prodigal returns [a true story]

[Author's Note from Emily Ryan: I was thrilled to get to know Emily Craft when we traveled to Israel together for a mission trip. I was even more thrilled when she agreed to let me share her story. If you are currently praying for a "prodigal" - a wayward child,...

3 reasons to pray about sex

3 reasons to pray about sex

Do you pray about your sex life? I know this isn't a popular question. It may even make some of you uncomfortable. In all honesty, it makes me a little uncomfortable asking it. For some reason, we have no problem addressing related questions such as: Do you pray for...

7 things to consider before setting goals

7 things to consider before setting goals

We’re just a few days into January, and new year’s resolutions are already breaking all around us like campaign promises after election day. This year was going to be the year you drank more water, exercised more regularly, watched less TV, or gave up coffee and...

How to face the clique problem in women’s ministry

How to face the clique problem in women’s ministry

Sometimes there is an ugly side to women’s ministry that we’d rather not talk about. Many churches ignore it, pretend it doesn’t exist or shrug it off as inconsequential. But there are times when it is very real, very dark, and very much a problem. It’s the clique...

Why I told my kids, "Mickey Mouse is wrong."

Why I told my kids, "Mickey Mouse is wrong."

It was such an innocent question. My family and I were on Day 3 or so of our week-long, fun-filled Disney World vacation. The kids were in their element - fast rides for the older boys, princesses galore for our daughter, and classic Mickey for our youngest. And we...

Houston area – Join me for holiday tea!

Houston area – Join me for holiday tea!

Do you have a favorite event of the Holiday Season? I do! It's my church's Holiday Brunch & Tea, and it's so much fun, I look forward to it every year. This year, though, I'll not only be attending - I'LL BE SPEAKING!!  And you're invited! This event is such a...

10 things not to bring on a mission trip

10 things not to bring on a mission trip

efore my recent service trip to Israel, the only other mission trip I’d been on was a simple trip to South Texas when I was in high school. Clearly, I am not a missionary expert. Nevertheless, I learned a lot from my first foreign mission trip,...

If I could only share ONE thing from the Holy Land, this would be it

If I could only share ONE thing from the Holy Land, this would be it

I don't know that I'll ever be able to effectively put into words the impact that my first trip to Israel had on my heart. The land. The history. The people. The experiences. All of which swirled together in my soul like a divine soup which I will sip from often from...

When saying yes scares the snot out of you

When saying yes scares the snot out of you

In a few short hours, I’m going to Israel. Yes, that Israel. The one that’s over seven thousand miles away. Despite the fact that I hate flying and do NOT like traveling without my children, Jason and I – along with twenty-plus other people from our church – are...

5 words for the mom who didn’t open her Bible all summer

5 words for the mom who didn’t open her Bible all summer

Let me guess. You had grand plans for spiritual growth this summer. You were not only going to finish the New Testament, you were also going to read a chapter of Proverbs every night to your kids before kissing their sunburned cheeks goodnight. You were going to get...