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“My mother has no wrinkles” a Mother’s Day poem

“My mother has no wrinkles” a Mother’s Day poem

My Mother Has No Wrinkles     My mother has no wrinkles Her hair, no hint of gray No pounds of time on her behind For her to wish away. Her arms aren’t soft or flabby Her spine is never bent No failing ears so she can’t hear Her granddaughter’s laments. My...

What I really thought about 2017 (+ big news!)

What I really thought about 2017 (+ big news!)

If I had to personify 2017, I'd describe it as a bitter, scowling, crotchety old neighbor who yells at kids to get off his lawn and refuses to decorate his house for Christmas. No matter how many times I reached out and tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, I...

In the midst of the storm

In the midst of the storm

I am safe. My family is safe. My home is secure. And for all of that, I am so grateful. We're in the midst of Hurricane Harvey right now, as so many of you are as well. Honestly, I don't even have the words to comment on the devastation. I've seen photos of my friends...

Every flag has a name

Every flag has a name

One of my brothers is an Air Force pilot and came home from a tour in Afghanistan just a few weeks ago. My other brother was in the Army, and he too came home from the Middle East many years ago. My father came home from his Army tour in Vietnam before I was born, and...

How to make friends at church

How to make friends at church

Fellowship is one of the core values of the New Testament church, so it makes sense that one of the worst feelings is going to church and not having any friends there. If that's how you feel, you're not alone. I've been there numerous times over the years and will be...

How to become an amazing mother-in-law

How to become an amazing mother-in-law

A few years ago, we had a garage sale at our house and my in-laws came over to help. After several hours, our old couches still hadn’t sold, so I took some photos and added them to Facebook. My sweet mother-in-law just happened to be sitting on one of the couches when...

What to pray when you don’t know what to pray

What to pray when you don’t know what to pray

The situation is inevitable. Your schedule is full. Your mind is swimming. But you need - and want - to spend time in prayer. However, when you finally get to push Pause on your life so you can sit down to pray… crickets. Your mind draws blank and you can barely...

That Easter I helped crucify Jesus

That Easter I helped crucify Jesus

Several years ago, my husband and I wrote a Christmas program for our church called The Arrival. Our premise was to portray the life of Christ from the cradle to the grave in a modern-day setting with the hope that, by stripping away cultural differences, people would...

Non-biblical reasons to tithe

Non-biblical reasons to tithe

Our church’s fiscal year begins in April each year, so every March we get to vote on the new proposed budget. Maybe it’s because I spent nine years in the finance industry crunching numbers for clients, but every year I can’t help but look at the church budget from a...

The VBS hashtag you should adopt now

The VBS hashtag you should adopt now

Even though it’s only April, many children’s ministries have been prepping for Vacation Bible School since January. At my church, we’re doing Lifeway’s Galactic Starveyors curriculum this year and we’ve already had several major planning meetings. VBS is one of my...

Can one small shift in your words affect your prayer life?

Can one small shift in your words affect your prayer life?

Several years ago, when our oldest son, Gideon, was still a toddler, my husband made a comment that has stuck with me ever since. We were going through our normal bedtime routine and Gideon was dawdling in the bathroom. To encourage him to get moving, I said, “Come...

How to talk to God when you’re mad at Him

How to talk to God when you’re mad at Him

I was talking to a friend recently when she confessed, “I’m having a hard time praying these days. To be honest, I’m a little mad at God right now.” I knew exactly how she felt. I’ve definitely been there. Sometimes my emotions are so raw and deep I’d rather throw a...