very night, my husband and I put our kids to bed and witness the sweet image of our children praying softly and sweetly to Jesus…
In reality, what we actually witness every night looks a little more like this: A whole lot of chaos mixed with a little bit of sweetness!
Ever since our oldest son was about two, we’ve had a bedtime routine. It’s changed a bit over time, but here’s what it looks like now:
- Bath / teeth / PJs / etc.
- Read one book – kids’ choice
- Read one section from our current devotional book (the boys each have one and we alternate between the two)
- Prayer time (we lead, but make them pray out loud too)
- I sing “Bushel and a Peck” as I tickle and hug each one. Some nights fast and silly, some times slow and soft.
- Lights out
Now, the routine itself is not one I’m necessarily unhappy with. I like that bedtime is family time. I like that we read. I like that we incorporate the Bible and prayer. But…
Lately I’ve noticed that our routine has become a little too routine, if you know what I mean. The boys start playing during devotional time, pray for silly things instead of serious things, and generally “check out” when the important times come.
I can feel that we’re at a fork in the road. Either we’ll ignore this subtle attack against our sacred rituals with our kids and it will all slowly disappear altogether over time. Or, we’ll remain aware and proactive about being intentional about family and devotional time and hopefully continue to influence their little minds with more truth and memories.
So, I’d love to get your input!
If you have young children now, tell me what works for you! If your kids are older and on their own, tell me what used to work for you or what you wish you would have done differently!
- What does your bedtime routine look like?
- How do you successfully incorporate the Bible and prayer?
- How do you teach your children to pray real prayers rather than silly prayers?
- How do you keep your own prayers from being monotonous and routine?
- How/What do you pray for on a daily basis for your kids?
- Do you use any devotional books? If so, which ones do you (and the kids) like?
- Any other tips or input?!
I’m seriously awaiting your comments on this one! And, I have lots of friends with young kids as well, so I know they’ll all appreciate your wisdom and insight!
When it comes to our kids and influencing them spiritually, I know that even a mediocre routine is better than nothing. But I sure would love to move from mediocre to dynamic!